Why CFS means I look terrible all the time!

When I see women in public who have their hair all perfectly straight and their make-up is done flawlessly I get seriously jealous. Because there I am, with my hair tied up but still somehow flying around my face, my make-up was there but now it’s either been done in 5 minutes or it’s sweated off my face.

Getting ready to go out is hell for me because by the time I’ve got dressed, wrangled my hair and put make-up on, I’m ready for bed again. One of the worst symptoms I deal with when getting ready to go anywhere is sweating. CFS/Fibro make my temperature control awful, I’m either freezing or boiling and when I’m hot, I just can’t control it, I can’t cool down! It doesn’t help that usually I’m freezing in the boiling sun and boiling in the freezing cold. The looks people give me in the middle of winter when I’m walking around in a strappy summer top is a picture.

But my sweating seems to always be triggered when I’m getting ready to go out. As soon as I start picking out what I’m going to wear, the first drops start dripping off my head. I straighten my super thick, wavy hair and within minutes it’s damp and frizzy because the head from the straighteners is making me sweat worse. My make-up goes on and at this point it’s the only thing I have going for me because my hair is ruined and I can’t get dressed because I’m sweating too much. It takes about half an hour for my make-up to literally be sweated off my face. At that point I’m frustrated, and fed up so my hair gets pulled back into a pony tail and I wipe all my make up off and come to terms with the fact I am never going to look like all the other women who go out looking perfect and put together.

It’s frustrating because I used to love doing my make-up and my hair, dressing up all nice and going out with friends and now it’s a matter of making myself look as presentable as possible while internally burning up and externally sweating all the fluid out of my body. It doesn’t help that one of the side effects of my medication is excessive sweating! That couples with my CFS/Fibro temperature issues and I’m doomed.

Does anyone else have this problem? I feel like I’m the only one! If anyone else struggles with this and has any remedies or advice then please let me know! Until then, I’ll continue looking like I’ve stepped out of a sauna.