It’s hard to feel hopeful and optimistic about life when your living with a chronic illness. The very nature of a chronic illness is that it’s ‘chronic’. It doesn’t suddenly go away. My experience with M.E has been a constant struggle against pain and fatigue; a balancing act with energy levels and living life. Drowning in all that exhaustion and malaise can be so deflating and it can be hard to stay positive and hopeful. The feeling that the struggle is pointless follows me around like a dark cloud and at times it’s hard to see past that hopelessness. But, I’ve always believed that words hold more power than people think; words connect people and feeling. When I read something written or spoken that sums up my feelings, it makes me feel less alone; that someone out there has felt the same way at some point in their life too. So I wanted to compile a list of quotes which have resonated with me; as a person living with chronic illness. These quotes have given me comfort and hope when things have seemed bleak. They remind me that there are others out there fighting the same battle, feeling the same way; but continuing on despite the struggle. They remind me that there is hope and reason to carry on and live life, despite the limitations and obstacles that chronic illness puts infront of me.

⦁ “The question is not how to get cured, but how to live” – Joseph Conrad

⦁ “Often the pain that makes us feel most stuck is not our suffering; it is experiencing distress in the presence of people who expect us to get better faster than we can.” – K.J. Ramsey

⦁ “Promise me you’ll always remember: You’re braver than you believe and stronger than you seem and smarter than you think.” – A. A. Milne

⦁ When you are faced with an on-going medical catastrophe, it forces you to take notice of the little things that you may have overlooked when you were dazzled with good health. You recognize that the little moments are not so little. The appreciation of accumulated small little moments can create a happier life.” – Karen Duffy

⦁ “I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it.” – Maya Angelou

⦁ “It got worse still as time went on because people did not sympathize with you any more. They couldn’t do enough for you at first, and that helped, and then they got bored with your troubles. But your troubles went on just the same and you had to bear them alone.” – Elizabeth Goudge

⦁ “As we sat at the table, acting like the drink wasn’t sour and pulpy, we got to talking about how her illness had come to affect her life. She explained to me that her energy reserves were like that glass of yellow juice. Every action of daily life—getting out of bed, bathing, dressing, doing research—siphoned juice away. Once the glass was empty, no matter how much she had left she needed to do or how much she’d hoped to get done, her body needed to rest. To refill the glass. If she tried to push beyond that, it could knock her out for days. Even weeks.” – Jessica S. Olson

⦁ “Those of us with chronic pain have something unique to offer, not in spite of our pain, but because of it. It’s okay to grieve the losses of chronic illness. It’s okay to be broken; everyone is in some way. Just because we’re unfixable doesn’t mean we’re worthless.” – Allison Alexander

⦁ “It’s my experience that people are a lot more sympathetic if they can see you hurting, and for the millionth time in my life I wish for measles or smallpox or some other easily understood disease just to make it easier on me and also on them.” – Jennifer Niven

⦁ “Remember to look up at the stars and not down at your feet. Try to make sense of what you see and wonder about what makes the universe exist. Be curious. And however difficult life may seem, there is always something you can do and succeed at. It matters that you don’t just give up.” – Stephen Hawking

⦁ “Never give up. It’s like breathing – once you quit, your flame dies letting total darkness extinguish every last gasp of hope. You can’t do that. You must continue taking in even the shallowest of breaths, continue putting forth even the smallest of efforts to sustain your dreams. Don’t ever, ever, ever give up.”- Richelle E. Goodrich

⦁ “The best way to treat obstacles is to use them as stepping-stones. Laugh at them, tread on them, and let them lead you to something better.” – Enid Blyton

Feel free to comment any of your favourite/inspirational quotes!